Category: Mark’s Moments


When the High School Football season started two weeks ago, we were cautiously optimistic about Marshall’s hopes for winning a game. It was the first time in 4 years that the Eagles football team had a coach return for a consecutive season. A 31-game losing streak can really take its toll. Imagine what the players felt when their fellow Marshall students jeered them for being part of a losing tradition. It was almost a joke. The school didn’t even have enough players on the JV team to play in the first week, which meant that Marshall forfeited the game. We’ve been going to Marshall Football games (home and away) for each of Steven’s four years at Marshall, and sometimes, we were the only ones in the stands.

After last week’s 34-0 loss to Salesion, it certainly looked like history was going to repeat itself. The boys’ confidence that showed a glimmer of light at the beginning of the season was all but extinguished. The only bright side to the week was one JV student’s efforts to recruit five new players to the JV team, just enough to play in this week’s game- not that they had any hope to win, but all the kids really wanted to do was play.

And play they did! On a hot Thursday afternoon on Marshall’s pathetic excuse for a football field, Marshall’s JV team stepped up to the proverbial plate and played their hearts out against Poly Technic. By no means was it a pretty game- Marshall didn’t score one point on offense. But it was the defense that kept them in the game. Not only did they hold Poly to only one touchdown, but Marshall’s defense picked up a fumble and ran the ball in for a touchdown, putting 6 points on the board- a welcome sight after so many games going scoreless. Late in the game, Marshall also forced a safety, which added 2 more points and putting them up for good by one point. Mark was part of that experience- playing offense, defense, and special teams. Being his first football game ever, he showed confidence and heart- making key tackles and blocks, earning him defensive player-of-the-game accolades from the coaching staff.

Now that JV won, with the Varsity team watching and celebrating with them, the pressure was mounting for the Varsity team to take care of business on Friday afternoon. After JV’s game, all of the Varsity players were chanting to each other- Win, or Die… Win, or Die. They certainly didn’t want to hear it for the rest of the year that JV is better than Varsity.

Friday’s Varsity game was also at Marshall vs. Poly Technic. The cheerleaders were out in force, and the marching band played their hearts out in the beating sun- the two groups constituting more than half of the crowd gathered to watch the game.

The game started in familiar fashion. Marshall coughing up a fumble on the opening drive, putting Poly in a position to score on the very next play. Just like that, it was 7-0. Before long, it was 10-0, and you could see the players start to doubt themselves on the field and on the sideline. But soon enough, things turned around. Marshall was moving the ball, and making stops on defense, preventing Poly from getting in scoring range on several possessions. Marshall’s first touchdown was a beauty. On fourth and goal from the 3 yardline with less than 10 seconds left in the half, Marshall’s quarterback plunged toward the goalline only to be stopped short by about a yard and a half. But the rest of the team refused to allow him to go down and they formed a wave of muscle, fat, sweat, and utter determination to push him forward over the goalline for a touchdown.

Marshall's First Touchdown Versus Poly Technic

That was just the beginning. Marshall racked up 23 more points before Poly was able to score again late in the fourth quarter. The two teams traded a couple more touchdowns before the dust settled, and the final score read 36-24. Marshall Wins! Marshall WINS!! MARSHALL WINS!!! The crowd went wild, and the players jumped, danced and embraced each other as if they won the Superbowl. As they should. Yes, it was only one win, but a win that was 4 years in the making. A win that I personally have been wanting to see every time we went to the game- every week for four years. I can’t imagine how the boys feel. I am just so proud of my two boys that were able to be a part of it, and for the rest of the boys that deserve to know how it feels to win. I just hope the rest of the school appreciates how hard they worked for the spirit of the school. They endured the effort, pain, and heartache for far too long to not reap the benefits of victory. The school should be proud, the Eagles are soaring again- even if it is for only one game- the glory will last a lifetime for these young men.

GO EAGLES!!!

Marshall Celebrating Their First Win in 4 Years

Final Score Marshall Versus Poly Technic

The Merino Boys After Winning Marshall Versus Poly


Shamir Merino

The week one game for Marshall Varsity Football was at Salesion in Los Angeles on September 11th. The game started out very competitive with Marshall only trailing 0-3 going into the second quarter. Marshall’s defense looked very strong as they were able to stop Salesion’s arsenal of offensive attacks. Steven played a key role on Marshall’s defense as safety by preventing two scoring attacks- one by deflecting a pass as it hit Salesion’s receiver inside the 10-yard line, and another by knocking their star running back off his feet as he penetrated the 5 yard line, causing a fumble that was recovered by Jesse Wright in the end zone for a Marshall touch back:

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Marshall’s offense, on the other hand, was another story. The offensive line let the floodgates open as Salesion defenders penetrated to the quarterback at will, not giving him enough time to even blink, much less find an open receiver.

The fact that Marshall has less than 25 players didn’t help as many played on offense and defense throughout the game. by the end of the second quarter, fatigue definitely played a role in Salesion starting their scoring run. By halftime, the score was 0-17. The halftime show fittingly consisted of a parade of police cars, fire engines, and ambulances- as if to predict the oncoming slaughter.

Needless to say, the rest of the game was fairly pathetic. Marshall failed to score, and failed to stop Salesion from scoring at will. The Eagles were exhausted and Salesion was able to rotate players from the sidelines on every play, giving them fresh players on each drive.

Final Score: Salesion 34, Marshall 0

Photo of the game:
Marshall Eagles Varsity Football- Game 1 2009 at Salesion

As school begins, so do all of the extracurricular activities. Since this is Steven’s Senior year at Marshall Fundamental, his role on the varsity football team increases to starting positions on offense, defense, and special teams. Of course, this is how things go at Marshall because there aren’t enough players to form separate squads like other schools who have 50-80 kids on their football teams.

This year, not only do we get to enjoy Steven tearing up the turf, Mark has also joined the ranks and is playing on Marshall’s JV football team, also pulling full duty playing on offense, defense, and special teams.

Mark and Steven Merino- Marshall Eagles Football


This year, we’re hoping to see some victories. Marshall is currently on one of the worst losing streaks in history. Varsity hasn’t won a game in 4 years, JV hasn’t won in 3 years. As pathetic as it sounds, the kids are all proud to be Eagles and boldly walk the halls with their jerseys accepting the abuse from their peers- because one day they are going to win, and the celebrations will be well worth the wait.

Stay tuned for weekly updates from the games.

Concussion Discussion

So this last Saturday evening after dinner, Mark and David were horse playing (as usual) and Mark grabbed David from behind in a reverse “bear hug”. In an attempt to get free, David swung his arms up and back towards Mark and accidentally nailed Mark directly in his eye ball with his finger. Mark dropped onto our bed (they were in our room at the time of the incident) in agonizing pain, face down, with his feet still planted on the floor. Apparently, the pain from the strike to his eye sent him into shock and he lost consciousness, and therefore all control of his body. He went limp and collapsed off the bed, head first onto our hardwood floor.

Christy and I heard and felt the “boom” as Mark hit the floor. Normally, when we hear bodies hit the floor in our house (I say normally, because it happens all of the time), there is usually some sort of reaction- either someone laughing, crying, running, or screaming. This time, there was no sound whatsoever, which is why Christy decided to investigate the situation. Upon arriving on the scene, Christy sees Mark on his back on the floor, his arms and hands clenched in an awkward fashion, his mouth open and his eyes fixated on an invisible spot on the ceiling. He immediately started going into convulsions as Christy desperately tried to get him to snap out of the eerie state he was in, while screaming for me to come and call 911.

By the time I got to the room and began dialing 911, Mark’s body went limp as he completely lost consciousness. His eyes rolled back into his head and the contact lens in the eye that David hit flipped out and lay on his cheek.

Several seconds passed before Mark regained consciousness. I still had the phone in my hand waiting for 911 to pick up when Mark’s eyes finally re-opened. I immediately hung up the phone to assess Mark’s condition, thankful to see him move and hear him mutter words, even though they were words of agony. Mark was as pale as a corpse, sweating profusely from every pore in his body. He was conscious, but obviously suffering from traumatic brain injury. We knew we had to get him to the emergency room right away. At that moment, our phone rang. It was 911 calling us back to make sure we were okay. I guess I hung up the phone after someone had picked up. Knowing that we lived only blocks away from one of the best hospitals in the state in Huntington Hospital, I figured that by the time an ambulance came to our house, assessed the situation, and took him back to the hospital, I could have already had him at the emergency room- so I told the 911 operator that we had the situation under control.

As soon as we got Mark off the floor, he started to vomit violently, a clear sign of brain trauma. We let him empty his system as we got the car ready. Within 15 minutes of the incident, we were at the emergency room.

We waited for 45 minutes before we were taken to a room. all the while, Mark was feeling nauseous and suffering from intense head aches. On our way to the room, Mark let out another volley of puke. Once in the room, we were immediately seen by a physician’s assistant who quickly determined that Mark needed a CT scan to assess the severity of the brain injury and make sure that there was no bleeding or swelling. After an IV plug was put into Mark’s arm (for precautionary measures), we made a quick jaunt to the radiology department, and within thirty minutes we received the promising results from the CT scan- no bleeding, no swelling. They gave Mark some Morphine and Zofran (for nausea) and let him rest while they continued to monitor him for the next couple of hours. By 1:30 in the morning, they determined that Mark was well enough to recover at home, and we were released.

I have to say, as a parent, this was a very difficult experience for me, but I know it was harder for Christy because she was the one that saw him in the most frightening state. We should be pros at this by now with three boys and several trips to the ER for each one, but they sure don’t get any easier. Besides the horrifying memories seared into our minds, we also came away with some cool pictures of our son’s brain, which not everyone can show off on their blog…

Mark's Skull

Mark's Brain (Side Profile)

Mark's Brain (Top View)

Well, Christy and I officially feel old. All of our kids are now in High School. Mark and David just graduated 8th Grade and Steven is now a freaking Senior. Wow… where did the time go?

Merino High School

As parents, we dedicate our lives to our kids- to ensure that they have everything they need to succeed and to be happy. It is a difficult proposition, and sometimes we feel like we fail, and sometimes we feel like we are on the right track. This last week was one of those times that made both Christy and I feel like parental geniuses. Move over Dr. Spock, the Merino’s are taking the spotlight now.

It first started on Sunday, June 7th when Mark and David were both presented with the prestigious Fuchs Award by the Pasadena Jewish Temple and Center. This award is presented to students who show exemplary dedication to their Bar Mitzvah studies, the Temple community, and the larger community. Along with a generous monetary award, Mark and David both received framed certificates and were honored in front of the congregation and Congressman Adam Schiff .

2009 Fuchs Award at PJTC


The very next day, Christy and I attended an assembly at Marshall Fundamental where David was honored as one of the 9 valedictorians for his 8th grade graduating class of 289 students. Throughout his middle school years, David maintained a perfect 4.0 GPA. Not only that, but David was also active in the Intermediate Orchestra, acting as Concert Master throughout the year, and participated in Music Man, Annie, and Peter Pan performances.

As proud as we are of David for achieving Valedictorian, we cannot ignore Mark’s accomplishments. Although not recognized by the school, we certainly realize that Mark only missed valedictorian by one class. He had all A’s throughout his middle school, but received a B+ last year in his Geometry class. The irony of the situation is that Mark is actually in High School level math and science classes, one year ahead of schedule in both subjects. It’s a shame that the school did not take that into consideration. Mark also played on the Junior High soccer team, AYSO soccer, and learned how to play guitar.

Combine all of this with their incredible Bar Mitzvah, and you have a very busy, yet successful year for Mark and David.

We cannot express how proud we are of them and how excited and anxious we are about their adventure into High School come September when Mark and David will be separated for the first time in their lives.

So now that David has had the spotlight for several posts over the past month, now it’s Mark’s turn. He is performing one of my favorite songs by Sublime. It is based on Psalm 137 and depicts the yearnings of the Jewish people in exile following the Babylonian conquest of Jerusalem in 586 BC.

Mom’s Genes, Shining Through
It’s always nice to see when your kids inherit some of the good genes in the family. In this case, Mark got his Mom’s vocal and musical ability…

Every Once In a While, They do Work Well Together
More Merino Boys Talent…

Well, it’s over. The Bar Mitzvah was a huge success. Mark and David blew us away with their “performance”. They led the services like pros, chanted the Torah and Haftarah with poise and confidence, and brought the house down with their speech. There are so many people that took part in making this event as memorable as it was, and I didn’t have a chance to thank them in person because I was in a euphoric cloud during the entire event. It wasn’t until today, three days later, that I have been able to regain my focus.

First and foremost, I want to thank Mark and David for making this such a joyous occasion. They made the commitment 3 years ago to have their Bar Mitzvah, and they have worked diligently at it from that moment on. They never complained about the studying or the practicing. In fact, they stepped up to the plate and accepted more responsibility as they proved themselves capable of taking it on. Yasher Koach, Mark and David… you guys ROCK!
Mark and David Bar Mitzvah Boys

Secondly, I would like to thank Cantor Judy Sofer and Rabbi Joshua Levine-Grater. They provided excellent guidance and exhibited patience and understanding for our unique needs.
Rabbi Levine-Grate and Cantor Sofer with Mark and David

Next, I would like to thank Sondra Dreshner, Mark and David’s Hebrew School teacher. She gave us all the necessary moral support and made sure we all felt confident and comfortable. She believed that Mark and David were capable of greatness, and encouraged them every step of the way. She is an incredible teacher, and more importantly, a wonderful friend of the Merino’s.
Sondra Dreshner with Mark and David

I also want to thank Christy’s uncle Oscar Castillo for taking all of the wonderful pictures. He was able to capture many special moments that we will cherish for our entire lives. He is truly an artist.
Oscar Castillo

The party was also a huge success, largely in thanks to Christy for her meticulous planning and careful selection of all of the elements to the party. The Rococo Room was the perfect setting for an intimate crowd like ours. The food and service was fantastic, and the price was more than competitive. We highly recommend them for anyone looking for a banquet room for around 100 guests. Our DJ, Scott Blugrind, was also a big part of the success of the party. He kept things moving and was able to successfully entertain teens and adults alike.

And last, but certainly not least… I would like to thank all of our family and friends that shared this wonderful time in our lives with us. You were all part of an amazing experience and without your love and support we would not have been able to enjoy sharing the gift that is Mark Merino and David Merino. As I mentioned in my speech, these twins have blossomed into two unique young men, and they have proven themselves to be stars.

To see a full gallery of pictures from the Bar Mitzvah, click here.

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